Open The Door (of your heart) Immediately
Right from smart phones to memory cards and office bags to sport shoes, everything is available at a single click on the keyboard, right; but Love is Not. Having someone in your life who thinks about you, adores you, loves you is something you should never say no to. So, the moment you feel like, someone is knocking on your doors (i mean, on your heart), Open The Door Immediately. Believe me, once missed, Love never comes back. It really doesn’t.
Speak It Up, you fool
If this morning your heart told you that it is liking (actually, loving) someone, don’t silence the voice. Listen to your heart carefully. And, if the message is clear, go to that person and say it aLoUd. What i’m not suggesting here is to go up to her (or him) when she is working in office or is with her mother. Look for the right time and just do it. I mean, JUST TELL HER ON HER FACE, HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER. Girls love daring guys (got this secret from my internal sources:) .
I don’t want you to feel like (some 5 or 10 years down the line) that only if you would have told her, life would have been different (doesn’t this line sound like a dialogue from Aamir Khan in Three Idiots?). No matter whether she accepts your love or not, you would be happy that you told her, that you didn’t just keep your mouth shut.
If it’s been long since you have been seeing someone in your office or in your college or anywhere else, i would say, ‘go and tell her.’
Don’t Lose Your Focus on What You Do
Being in love doesn’t mean that you should lose you focus, your aim in life. Most of the time, if you are working well in your professional life, has good looks (hey! you need not to look like Hritik or Arjun Rampal, you are great the way you are), the girl would say Yes. After all, she is also looking for a partner who would love her and has a financially stable life style.
So, there is no need to torn off your clothes, grow your beard and look like,”Majnu’. Take some deep breaths, ask her for an eating out (if it’s possible) and propose her with a nice gift (you need not to buy a diamond ring (though it will be a great idea), a bunch of fresh rose flowers will do the trick).
Never Ever Let Your Buddies Know
Are you a believer in that old saying, ‘A friend in need is a friend indeed’? Well, just forget it, right here. Don’t tell your buddies about how you feeling for that someone special (especially when, they also know that special person). The reasons as to why you shouldn’t tell them are:
They’ll laugh at you (it’s only you who know the thing, not your buddies)
They’ll discourage you (Even before the flower blooms, they may dry it by their so-called-comparisons and other stupid-logic)
They may ruin the game. Imagine what would happen if one of your friends go up to her and tell the secret! (it’s very much possible) Keep your friends at an arm’s length, unless there is kind of emergency.
Kya Pata, Kal Ho Na Ho…(Who Knows Tomorrow Will Come or Not)
I know, you’ve seen the movie (wasn’t Shah Rukh looking awesome, delivering those heavy romantic dialogues?). But, the point that i want to make here is that ‘You Would Never Get All Lights Green on the Road.’ That perfect time may not come at all when you would tell your feelings to her. The right time is NOW.
There is already such intense competition for Good and Beautiful girls out there; so, i believe, you should do it Right Now.
It’s Good to Have a Script Ready
One more time, i need to bring Shah Rukh here. You must have seen this great actor talking to his opposite in that charming manner, uttering words that directly and effortlessly touch the heart of millions of girls in this country (he’s got big fans even outside India). So, it’s good if you devote a few hours on what would you tell her (and more importantly, How Would You Tell Her).
Prepare a script and rehearse the same, some 5-6 times (it’s better if you do this before a mirror). Once you find yourself comfortable with the words (and the emotions that those words should invoke), you are ready to go.
I just hope that the above tips (or whatever they are) help you win your love, your life. If you have some great tips/tricks with you, do share here, in the comment-box. It would be like, ‘Contributing to an Universal Noble Cause’ 🙂
Wish You Happy Days (n happy nights) Ahead!